The Prayer Room

Dear God:

I really need Your help today. Sometimes it seems like the world around me is filled with fear, loss, pain, anger, and confusion. And when I look inside me, I see more fear, loss, pain, anger, and confusion.

I know You’ve saved me from so much in the past, and I know You’re still the most important thing in my life. But I’m having a hard time holding onto You now, and believing that You can ever keep me safe and heal this broken place. So I’m asking for Your help today.

It’s never really been easy being me, and it’s a lot harder now. I’ve been working on living the way You want me to, and learning to treat people including myself with love and respect.

But now big parts of my life have been washed away, and it almost feels like part of my soul has been washed away too. Sometimes I don’t even understand the way I feel, or the way the people around me are acting. I’m exhausted. My nerves are raw. How can I use Your love and Your principles to get through all this and come out stronger and better?

I know from past experience that You often heal me by helping me find and use the strengths you’ve already given me strengths that I sometimes forget to use. Then, little by little, things get better. I get better. So today I’m going to ask You to show me these and other strengths inside me, and to help me remember them and use them all day:

• Trusting YouWhen I trust You trust You no matter what my fear gets smaller, and I get calmer. I know You’re taking care of me, and You’ll keep taking care of me in ways I don’t yet understand. I start to see things more clearly, and I make better choices.
• Accepting Your WillWhen I try to accept Your will even though I’m hurting and I don’t know what you want for me then the fear starts to disappear. I can feel safe, even if there’s danger around me. I can face whatever happens and do whatever You want me to do, whether You want me to stay or go, speak or be silent, take a stand or simply watch things happen. I just need to keep trying to do what you want.
• Healing the WoundsI know I’ve been hurt by this experience, even though sometimes I just feel numb. I also know there are old wounds deep inside me that make it harder to handle what’s going on now. I’m willing to let You heal all these wounds, no matter what I have to do. Sometimes the best way to heal is just to feel whatever I feel, even if I don’t like it. Sometimes I have to ask for help and let people help me. Sometimes I can heal by speaking my truth, sometimes by letting go of guilt or resentment, and almost always by trying to do things the way You want me to, even though it’s still hard.
• Choosing to LoveI ask You to help me choose to love myself and others, with all our flaws and mistakes. I don’t have to fix other people or take away their pain. I just have to love them and be a respectful witness to their pain, so they’re not going through it alone. Love isn’t an emotion; it’s a decision. Whenever I’m making that decision, it’s easier to heal, and harder to cause problems for myself or anyone else.
• UnderstandingPlease help me keep an open mind, be honest with myself, and see everyone including myself with compassion. Help me remember that the painful and sometimes irrational things we’re thinking and feeling right now are normal reactions to a very painful situation the kind of situation that human beings just aren’t built to understand. Help me take the time to understand people before I react to them.
• VigilancePlease help me be vigilant, so that I can tell whether a person, situation, or action is likely to help me heal or cause more problems.
• DisciplinePlease give me the discipline to make choices that will help me heal and avoid choices that will cause more problems.
• GraceIf I do start to make unwise choices, please help me catch my balance and set things right before my words or actions can lead to any problems.
• ResponsibilityPlease give me the courage to take responsibility for my mistakes and their consequences, and to make amends for any harm I’ve done, whenever I can do this without causing more harm. Please also help me take responsibility for being part of my own healing for asking for the help I need, and accepting it.
• ForgivenessPlease teach me to forgive myself and others for the harm we’ve done, no matter how large or small our mistakes, and no matter how old or new the wounds are. Help me understand that forgiveness doesn’t give me or anyone else permission to keep on doing harm; it just means I don’t have to carry the past around any more.
• CommunityPlease help me reach out to others, to help them and accept the help that they have to offer. I know my healing will be deeper and more complete if I do it in community with others. We may feel like we’re broken, but together we’re whole. And in the love I give to others, I’ll find the love I need from You.

I thank You for giving me these strengths, and for helping me find them and use them today. With your help I will survive this, and I will grow much stronger and closer to You

Heavenly Father,

I declare that I have your favor today

I declare that I am strong and well able to fulfill my God given destiny; I know you are fighting my battles for me.

I declare that I am a victor and not a victim. I may have been defeated in the past but the past is past, this is new day

Your word says that “I am the head and not the tail”

“I will lend and I will not borrow”

Every thing I touch will prosper and succeed according to your perfect will because of your favor my Father.

I declare that by your stripes I am healed today. I will live and not die. I declare that you are restoring health unto me, and with long life you satisfy me

Father, today, I declare your favor in my relationship with you, favor in my relationship with my wife and my family, favor in relationships with my friends, and favor in relationships in my business.

I want to thank you for causing me to be at the right place at the right time. I want to thank you for causing people to want to help me.

Today, Father I want to thank you for blessing me with creativity, I want to thank you for causing me to make good decisions with a clear mind

I declare that you are smiling down on me today and that your favor will be in everything I do because I am pleasing to you.

I declare that I will be blessed in the city and blessed in the country, blessed coming in and blessed going out.

I claim right now, Psalm 84:11 that you are blessing me with favor and honor and no good thing will you withhold from me because my walk is blameless.

I claim Habakkuk 2:3 that my vision is for an appointed time. Though it may tarry, I will earnestly wait for it, for it will surely come.

I declare today that I am filled with your can do power my Father. Between you and me, we are the majority and I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me.

I know that your Word says that, “no man has seen, heard or even imagined the wonderful things that you have in store for those that love you” and I want to tell you this morning that I love you and I want to thank you for loving me.

I want to thank you for your favor today, not because of who I am, but because of whose I am. I am a child of the most high God, the creator of the whole universe.

I commit this day to yo In Jesus name, Amen

So I decided to drown out fear. I realized fear was just my imagination amplifying situations that didn't even exist. And if I could control my thoughts, I could control my fear.

That's where prayer became important — in a new way. Even when I had nothing to pray for, even when I was afraid, I could focus on gratitude. I'd pray for things I wanted to thank God for. Or thank Him in advance for things I wanted to happen. That let me ignore the fear and focus on the blessing instead.

That's how I got out of my darkest times. Praying in gratitude — because I couldn't think of anything else, and I didn't want to give my attention to the pain or the fear.